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Polyamory Quotes. Quotes tagged as "polyamory" Showing of 60 . Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love. Can a monogamist be happy in an open relationship? Thus the tacit ground rules of my marriage for more than 12 years were that I was monogamous and he was not. those particulars can be negotiated, perhaps with the one who wants a certain kind of play Reply to Anonymous · Quote Anonymous. Use The Knot's list of relationship quotes from funny to new to cute quotes about Gabriel Garcia Márquez, One Hundred Years of Solitude If you and your one and only make a habit of being playful, silly, and smiling a lot, good for you! .. show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can .
Like I can do anything. A dream you dream together is reality. There's no logic to these things. You meet someone and you fall in love and that's that.
It is a person. And we are finally home. But the sense of camaraderie that comes with a lasting relationship? These strong relationship quotes will have your heart skipping a beat. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you. You will wish that it was. You can transmute love, ignore it, muddle it, but you can never pull it out of you. I know by experience that the poets are right: When we try to control it, it destroys us.
When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused. But finding a true soul mate is an even better feeling. A soul mate is someone who understands you like no other, loves you like no other, will be there for you forever, no matter what. They say that nothing lasts forever, but I am a firm believer in the fact that for some, love lives on even after we're gone.
I couldn't even believe it. That was the biggest thing to me. I'd never known anything like the friendship that I had with him. I could like him as much as I loved him.
Opening Up Quotes by Tristan Taormino
The confidence he has brings it to me. That's the way you should be with your partner. It feels like you have this partner who is going to be with you and also change light bulbs and do dishes with you.
Sometimes that's the greatest gift someone can give you.
Polyamory Quotes (60 quotes)
Learn to dance, young men, learn to dance. Make jokes and learn to dance, and you can land a Kristen Bell. Right off the bat he said what he felt.
There are no games with him—he is who he appears to be. I feel fortunate as a woman to have a husband who loves me and shows me in every way.
So yes, I do know that. And now he'll know I know.
Non-monogamy showed me what it really means to be with someone
You'd think the dreamers would find the dreamers, and the realists would find the realists, but more often than not, the opposite is true. You see, the dreamers need the realists to keep them from soaring too close to the sun. Well, without the dreamers, they might not ever get off the ground. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.
Love is totally nonsensical. I'd always been a good worker and a good student and very appropriate -- well-behaved, I guess. I could feel this rumbling underneath all of that. I could feel middle age coming and there was this urge that I really wanted to deeply experience my womanhood, what it is to be a female. I felt like motherhood and sexuality were the two most instinctual routes to this, and when the motherhood door closed, it was like a dam burst.
All my fears of behaving badly went out the window and I just decided to listen to my body and go wherever it led me. So many women experience that to some degree, but few take the leap to do what you did. What do you think allowed you to say, screw it, I'm going for it?
That's a good question. I think it's the fact that I'm kind of a stubborn-headed person to begin with -- and that's not always a good thing, it's a real weakness of mine -- and the fact that we were living in San Francisco and I had seen people having open relationships, a lot of our gay friends had them. So it wasn't completely out of the realm as if we were living in Omaha. In marriage you are constantly negotiating and someone's gotten more of what they want and the other one is compromised.
As soon as my husband got that quote-unquote "win" with the vasectomy, I felt that he owed me something to make up for that. I was willing to go to my deathbed having had children and just the four lovers, but without children or grandchildren, I wasn't willing. It wasn't intellectual where I said, "Now I'm putting my foot down. I went where it led me. Believe me, it was out of character, I was almost watching it happen. San Francisco is kind of a character in this book. Can you talk about the city's influence?
I certainly don't think San Francisco made me do it, but I do think the environment helped influence me. Like I said, we were living right in the middle of the gay community; I have a lot of gay friends and a lot of them seemed to do OK with open relationships. We knew a few straight couples who were doing it. And I was a journalist in San Francisco working at a lifestyle magazine.
I was going into Kink. So, I was exposed as a journalist to lifestyles that were not conventional at all. I think that edged me toward "this is a possibility for me too," instead of going the traditional route of cheating when you hit your midlife crisis.
I could feel that was about to happen. I already had slipped up and it almost happened. I knew it was coming. I felt an open marriage was better than ongoing adultery. You knew you were going to do it so why not do it aboveboard. Try to do it aboveboard, anyway. Of course, you make rules about it and they're like sandcastles at high-tide. Rules about sex are, you know -- Made to be broken? They tend to go out the window. But both of us did try to abide by the rules. We didn't always succeed.
The first section of the book is titled "Death of the Good Girl. I grew up the firstborn, a valedictorian, a codependent in an alcoholic family, just very much trying to help everyone and take care of everyone, a very female thing. As it relates to sex, I do think I carried some of that into the bedroom. I did feel I had a pretty good sex life on average, but I definitely felt inhibited in bed. When I was in my 20s and even into my 30s, I liked quiet sex. I like the traditional, romantic model of how a woman enjoys sex, which is a lot of foreplay and talking and emotional safety and equality.
As I started to mature sexually and gain more confidence, I felt this corresponding urge for sex to become more energetic and interactive, for there to be experiences of not just gentleness and love but also what I guess you could call very light BDSM, word play and a little bit of hair pulling. I wanted to experience a different kind of sex than I was having in my marriage. I tried experiencing it in my marriage and I found it's hard to change the sexual dynamic of a long marriage.
It tends to be easy to let out a whole new side of yourself with a new lover. It's a little hard to change something you've been doing with your partner for 17 or 18 years. It was challenging to experience this sexual growth within the marriage, because I was changing and my husband really wasn't.
He enjoyed things as they always had been. Did you set out with boxes that you wanted to check in terms of sexual experiences?
It was more a general feeling that I wanted more lovers before I died. I did find that after I got toward the end of that year, as it was coming to a close, then that list came up in my mind, like, "OK, I have two months left, is there anything I haven't done yet.
Having a threesome was another one.
It was a vague mental bucket list. Can you tell me a little bit about the men that you met during this year?
Some reminded me of my husband in their looks. There was a great variety of men. I wasn't really going for one thing. It wasn't even that they were different from my husband, but our encounters were different than within my marriage because I could act differently with them. In general they were more forceful or aggressive or sexually experimenting than my husband, but so was I when I was with them.
It made me wonder if my husband was also that way with a new lover. The way I saw it, it wasn't the people in my bedroom that were changing as much as it was me changing in response to the situation. I consider myself a smart woman and thinker, I've done years of therapy, but I was dumbfounded at the fact that I just wanted to say the most basic little slice of dirty talk to my husband in bed and my throat would literally close up.
I would even tell him afterward, "I wanted to say this and I couldn't," and he would say, "Say it!
But put me in bed with a new man and it just flew out of my mouth. Why do you think? I'm sure you've read Esther Perel's "Mating in Captivity. You have to create a little distance to ignite erotic energy. That's the best way I can explain it.
Once the marriage opened up and we started having other lovers, our sex did change a little.