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And after I watched the sequel of Finding Nemo, Finding Dory, I got a feeling that Marlin's and Dory's relationship grew stronger than ever! They should definitely. I don't know, thats a good question. It seems like they kind of do, but Marlin still probably has that whole issue with his dead wife and it's an. In Finding Nemo, Dory was cast as Marlin’s sidekick. This is further supported by claims of the Pixar team struggling to build a story revolving around her in Finding Dory. In Finding Nemo, why does Dory's memory improve as the movie progresses?.
A traditional, nuclear family is structured around a mother, father and, below them, children. In adhering to this idea, we find the opening of this story gives reason for this structure with the mother, Coral, being cautionary, warning Marlin of the dangers of freedom whilst he, the adventurer, embraces the danger.
This equilibrium is shown to be the near-perfect equation for the family before the barracuda attacks. So, with Marlin embodying both Nemo's mother and father as he raises him alone, he struggles to find a balance - as represented by his over-anxious almost neurotic nature. This disharmony - as we will explore in greater depth later on - leads to Nemo's capture, and so has Marlin trail his way to Dory is a classical device: As in all adventures, Marlin has been called out of his known world and into the unknown.
With Dory as the accomplice, her role isn't just to provide help or impart wisdom - at least, not directly. Dory will test Marlin and, by fate the hand of the writerthe two will grow together.
So, in a way, Dory will help re-construct the family circle of trust by inadvertently re-assessing the roles of the anima and animus as the head of the family. One of the most ingenious aspects of Dory's character is then that she has short-term memory loss. To anyone who has followed the blog for a while or who has an interest in experimental filmmaking, the name Maya Deren will be familiar to you.
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Deren's most famous film is Meshes Of The Afternoon. Rife with symbolism, but wrought by a complex relationship between space and time, Meshes Of The Afternoon seemingly explores loss and confrontation in a relationship. One of the most expressive and unique aspects of this film is the manner in which it uses time as a formal device. Giving insight into this, Deren herself articulated her idea of female and male perceptions of time in the posthumous documentary, In the Mirror of Maya Deren.
What I do in my films is very distinctive. I think the strength of men is in their great sense of immediacy. A woman has strength to wait because she has had to wait. Time is built into her body in the sense of 'becomingness'. She sees everything in terms of the stage of becoming This quote which can be heard heard in full here explains her films as projecting a woman's sense of time through waiting and through expanded time being compressed into a small frame.
Deren goes on to imply that this sense of time that is unique to females may be inherent to them because of their biology she references pregnancy later onand so Deren's statement on time is essentially that the anima, the female archetype, is defined - in a way - by a wider understanding of time than a man. This idea speaks incredibly well to our concept of Coral as the cautionary maternal figure - she who has to think ahead of herself for the sake of her children - and Marlin as the adventure - he who concentrates on manipulating the now.
With Marlin becoming a neurotic mother, he thinks too much about the future and entirely loses contact with his idea of 'now'. But, when he meets Dory, he finds a female figure who is completely opposed to Deren's conception of the female perspective; she has no grip of waiting and the future.
This grip was lost because Dory lost her idea of the 'now' for so long she has had short-term memory loss for so long that she doesn't have an idea of the long-term past. As a result, Dory has lost the male perspective of time a projection of the animus - the 'male' attribute within females for so long that she has also lost her female perspective.
There is then both disharmony in Marlin, whose anima as represented by his perception of time is out of control and in Dory, who, because she is so bound to the now, doesn't seem like a functional person.
She then breaks all expectations of a female accomplice as she doesn't remind the male of his hubris and stupidity like, for example, Hermione does throughout the Harry Potter series.
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This representation of males and females in stories, whilst not a scientifically derived idea, resonates with the nuclear family because the female has her inadequacies and the male his, but, together, they form a functional union. When we look to the pairing of Dory and Marlin, we have two dysfunctional individuals who, speaking about Dory, have no grip on time and, looking to Marlin, tries to control time too much. Separated, they seem to be doomed to wander in an ocean of either timelessness or constant, deranging ticking.
Together, however, it is implied that the two can maybe mute each other's faults instead of emphasising them.
As a consequence of their abnormal perceptions of time, Marlin and Dory act in entirely exaggerated ways considering their presence as the anima and animus of this story. This is realised almost immediately with their encounter with the trio of sharks. Dory clearly has no concerns whilst Marlin is on the brink of an aneurysm.
In a way here, Dory is infantalised and made out to be a naive child. This is so because her time-frame of being is so far in her past that it probably reaches into childhood. Marlin, too, is stuck in his past the night in which his wife and children were taken from himbut this has expanded his view of time forward and kept him from seeing a brighter vision of the future with more naive eyes as Dory does.
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The commentary on tragedy and misfortune here is that events of these kinds can radically shift your idea of space and time - which, itself, is quite profound. Because of their conception of time, the idea of the strange unknown that the two venture into is then exciting for Dory - vegan sharks seem like nice guys - but daunting for Marlin, so much so that he becomes a self-fulfilling prophet by triggering the fish-eating shark within Bruce.
What this emphasises is that Dory was, ultimately, correct in her ambivalence and that Marlin was wrong for attempting to control everything. As a result, Dory is already becoming the female accomplice who, like Hermione, teaches the males of their hubris and short-comings despite her initially seeming like the complete antithesis of this traditional archetype.
As a result, what we see developing in this story is a strong relationship between the traditional ideas of the nuclear family and the non-traditional. Such is common in almost all Disney and Pixar films that see families comprised of unexpected individuals form. However, specific to this story, we are seeing Dory instil 'male' characteristics into her and Marlin's relationship; she is the one who thinks on her feet and embraces the 'now' of adventure in this sequence, not Marlin.
This, again, happens in the next sequence in which Dory teaches Marlin how to "just keep swimming". This allows them to venture into darkness and confront the monsters that loom below. However, this is where Marlin begins to evolve: The light that Marlin then sees by coming so close to death is then that he can wrestle with monsters in the unknown and come out alive - he, like Dory in the previous sequence - can think on his feet, lead and survive.
Let us not forget Dory in this sequence, however. As we learned previously, she can read. This is a rather questionable element of this story and, in some respects, a clear ex machina. When Dory is caught in the net, Marlin shows a huge amount of concern, and even more when Nemo joins her to try and get her out. But after they are both free they seem to have maintained a good relationship, living on the reef. When Dory remembers her family she begs Marlin to come with her. He refuses at first until she asks him if he's ever missed anyone badly to which he replies yes, as he was once separated from his son.
They travel to California together and Marlin expresses his concern of her causing trouble, and after she nearly gets Nemo eaten by a giant squid, he lashes out at her, telling her to go and forget since it's what she does best. She is deeply hurt by this, and tries to make it better by looking for help. When she is kidnapped, Marlin shows incredible distress, even eventually saying her kidnapping was his fault and lamenting about it.
When Marlin is reunited with Dory in the pipes, he is extremely happy to see her, and is willing to help look for her parents, but is also saddened when he realizes he'll have to say goodbye to her. But when she gets the news her parents are most likely dead, she doesn't even hear Marlin's gentle attempts to calm her, too distraught, and when he finds her missing his face drops, possibly thinking she is dead from being dropped on the floor Dory shows incredible concern for Marlin and his son after she reunites with her parents and suddenly remembers he's still in the truck.
When she comes back to rescue them, he smiles as she comes back and tells him and his son that they are family, and when Dory tells him she missed them he replies he missed her too. When Becky rescued Marlin and his son but not Dory, he instantly tried to send Becky back. And then cries out for her as the truck drives away with her inside. He is happy when she escapes once again. In the end of Finding Dory he playfully joins in a game of hide and seek with her.
But after the game is over and Dory announces she's going to the drop off, he can't control his anxiety and worry for her and follows her, relaxing as she is only looking at the view, and he enjoys it too, by her side. Nemo Dory has motherly relationship with Nemo. When the two met, she was relieved to find someone with kindness, and offered to help him look for his father, although she didn't remember she was looking for him too.
When she recovered her memories of the journey, she hugged Nemo tight and instantly tried to get him to his father.
He risks his life to save her from the net. After he is reunited with Marlin and the two are free from the net, she is shown to have a good relationship with him, saying goodbye to him as he leaves for school.
In Finding Dory, their bond is much closer. Dory has a deep caring relationship, almost like a mother. When they are on the field trip and she continuously forgets, she gains help from him, and when she is sucked into the undertow of the stingrays, he cries out her name in worry and is the first fish to be close to her as she regains consciousness.
When she remembers her family, he wants to help in any way he can, and encourages her to be herself. She shows great concern after the giant squid attack, ready to get help at a moment's notice. When she is taken, she calls out both to Marlin and Nemo, while they both watch in horror.
Nemo also defends her forgetfulness to his own father, expressing his disappointment and disgust at Marlin's harsh words to her before she got taken. When she meets with them in the pipes, she expresses joy at finding them both, and while Dory is singing softly to herself and swimming, Nemo laments that he has to say goodbye to Dory, possibly because Dory is the closest thing he's gotten to a mother figure. When she learns her parents are most likely dead, he, along with his father, attempt to calm her, to no avail.
She shows concern as she suddenly remembers he and his father are still in the truck, and cries out for her after Hank says that he lost her possibly thinking she was dropped on the ground and suffocated When they reunite in the truck, Nemo hugs Dory, and she hugs him back, saying how she would never be able to forget him, as he is part of her family, to which he reacts joyfully to.
At the end, Nemo and Dory play hide and seek with her parents, his father, and his schoolmates.